Love=Support

When you love someone: mom, dad, brother, sister, cousin, relative, friends, boyfriend, girlfriend, fiance, husband, wife, and child. No matter who they are, if you love them you would support them right? I have always viewed that the love you give someone should be the same amount in supporting them in what they do. I know that some of the choices that we make in life aren't always the right one, but if you love someone, you should be there no matter what.

     As a Christian, I know God loves us very much. As it says in John 3:16 "For God so loved the world, he gave his only begotten son, and who that shall believes in him shall not parish, but have everlasting life." How does this tie in, God gave us someone he loved so much for us to know us love us and die for our sins so that we didn't have to. Where I'm getting at with this, is the fact that when we decide to take the wrong path for support, God still loves us and is always their for us. For example, some women think that the best way to get support for others is to put their bodies out their in order to take care of their family; Its just like for a guy when they feel its ok to get involved with drug dealing. Our family and friends may not and more than likely wont love the idea, but the love they have for you wont change, and they would rather support you in a different way.

    When you fully love someone but don't give them that same feeling in support, not gonna lie, its hurtful. I've had to experience that a lot growing up and yea it hurts. As of now, it hurt to feel that same pain again that i haven't felt since my (public) school days. Of course my passion is acting, and recently I have found a website that helps me start easy, simple, and kinda fast. The fact that I looked into it, asked if they had a website for me and my fiance to view before making any kind of payments, i thought was a good thing. But the fact when I tried to talk about or show him the website, but the vibe I received was an "kinda don't care" vibe. Having to actually ask him if he has something against my acting, really bumbed me out for about 3 days cause he said not really. So of course that tells me there is something he doesn't like about it.

    We did talk it over and yes that is something that you have to do. To make someone or any one feel as if you don't have their back in whatever they may want to achieve, is very hurtful. If you need to express why you don't support it, then state your reason why so they can understand. Like they say, "It take two to make a thing go right". At this point with his support or not, I'm achieving my dreams, just as i would support his.